love isn't a feeling... but is an ability...

for me, love is an ability... those who love based on feeling, it can't stay forever. u can't love someone based on the outside. u must love inside and outside. so when u feel u love with a hot 'chick', that's not love. is a bullshit. u say love when u are ready to take all the responsibility. u say love when u can bear all the pain through the relationship. that's why love is an ability. those who possess the ability, can find their true love and live happily. those who feel in love, sorry to say lah.